November 12, 2010
David Hayden
A Little Humor, Foodies, Servers
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A world without tips
I am still incredibly grateful for my recent guest post on tipping. It inspired my response that discussed the economics of tipping. It also raised a few other interesting points that I am now learning are common misconceptions about restaurants. For people who have never worked in a restaurant, these misconceptions can easily be mistaken as facts. Upon further consideration they may not be wise to pursue. One interesting idea that she raised in the post was raising the wages paid to server by restaurants to replace tipping. While on the surface it seems quite logical, it would have a disastrous impact on the industry.
Restaurants are operated on incredibly thin profit margins. As discussed in a previous post, large corporate restaurant chains are extremely susceptible to anything that affects their stock prices. With a huge spike in the cost of labor, restaurant stock prices would crumble. Independent restaurant owners struggling to stay afloat would shutter. Consumers would lose choices. A vast majority of restaurants would survive this initial wave, but be forced into the next step.
The remaining restaurants would set a wage for servers considerably lower than what the servers make now. Professional servers with years of experience would have to settle for the new rate or venture into a new career field. Between servers quitting and terminations, restaurants would reduce the size of their server staff by about a third. Servers who worked four table sections before would now be required to work six tables for less money. This would reduce the damage to the restaurant’s bottom line, but also drastically reduce the quality of service that was provided to guests.
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October 26, 2010
David Hayden
Managers
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Provide the power and watch your staff come to life.
“If you don’t understand that you work for your mislabeled ‘subordinates,’ then you know nothing of leadership. You know only tyranny.” -Dee Hock
You have two choices as a manager. You can force every staff member to do things as you would do them or you can encourage them to achieve the results you want to achieve. The first choice will force you into a great deal of resistance and move you further from your goal. The second will reduce your stress as your staff finds innovative new ways to achieve your shared goal. In the past I have addressed the desire for autonomy as a vital motivating force for restaurant employees. Today I will address it from the perspective of a leader and how it benefits the leader as well.
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October 25, 2010
David Hayden
Managers
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Each person climbs the mountain for their own reason
“Leaders don’t force people to follow-they invite them on a journey.” -Charles S. Lauer
The fundamental question behind the desire to manage rather than lead is, “How can I get people to do what I want them to do if they do not want to do it?” Failure to answer this question is what leads so many managers to lead by force and threat of force. The answer to this question is simple. You must create a vision for your staff, which allows them to achieve what they want by achieving what you want. This is what I will refer to as a shared goal, vision, or sense of purpose. I have discussed the idea of selling a sense of purpose in the past. Today I want to go deeper into how to develop it.
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October 22, 2010
David Hayden
Managers
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They build statues for leaders, not managers
Several times on this blog I have referred to the fact that you cannot manage servers. This is always followed up by the idea that you have to lead them instead. Managing servers is very much like trying to herd cats. I think this is a fairly easy concept to grasp. The difficulty in putting this idea into action is differentiating between being a manager and a leader.
Being a manager makes you responsible, but it does not make you a leader. Leadership requires a separate set of skills. If you choose to be a manager instead of a leader, someone will step up to fill that leadership role. The problem is that they may lead their followers in a direction that makes your goals more difficult to achieve. Nearly every goal a manager can have is made easier with the support of their staff. Developing the qualities of a leader is the easiest way to get your staff to follow you and help achieve your goals.
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September 30, 2010
David Hayden
Foodies, Managers, Servers
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Aspirational Dining
I am a Mac guy. This means only the occasional interruption for updates from Microsoft. These are most often for Word for Macs. Yet in none of these updates have they added to my spell check dictionary words like “Barack Obama, Al Qaeda, or Facebook.” If they do implement this change they can use this as my “Windows 27 was designed by me” testimonial. When they do develop this technology they should also add the word “aspirational” to my spell check.
The phrase “aspirational” has been used to describe many things you might find endorsed by Martha Stewart. It is used to describe the desires of people to own, do, and consume things they view as entitlements of the rich. Anything from a new luxury car to really expensive cheese can be labeled as “aspirational.” They are the things we want even if we know they are not truly in our price range. These are the adult versions of that cool bike you thought would bring you a lifetime of happiness as a kid.
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September 22, 2010
David Hayden
Managers, Servers
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"Did you get my note on the back of a bubble gum wrapper asking for this thursday off?"
One of the most time consuming tasks a manager faces during the week is writing the server schedule. Hours can be spent digging up scraps of paper and consulting server availability just to get coverage for a particular shift. This is followed by the inevitable complaints from people who work too little or too much. It is a task most managers dread. It is also one that can be avoided.
This week I have discussed the advantages and disadvantages to having a set schedule from a server’s perspective. Today I wanted to wrap this topic up by discussing the impact it has on managers. All things considered, I think this can be tremendously beneficial for managers. There are some downsides though. Knowing both the advantages and the disadvantages will help you make a better decision when debating set scheduling.
There are a few disadvantages to implementing set schedules as a manager.
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September 20, 2010
David Hayden
Managers, Servers
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As Close As You Can Get As A Server
Saturday night I spent some time on the patio with one of the newer servers at my restaurant. He is low on seniority, but has spent more years serving than I have. I estimate total the two of us have between three and four decades of serving experience. I am pretty high on seniority at my restaurant, but nevertheless we were in neighboring sections on the patio on a reasonably busy Saturday night watching the rain. After nearly four hours (five for him) we were sent home without receiving a table.
I work at a restaurant that has a set schedule. They take it a step further by rotating sections by an established system. This means that seniority and experience do not factor into what station I have on a given night. I know in advance what station I will have, what sidework is mine, and how likely it is that my station will be cut. This has both positive and negative impacts on how I view my job. Today I will discuss the negatives and tomorrow I will address the benefits of having a set schedule.
Here are some of the drawbacks of set schedules:
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September 16, 2010
David Hayden
A Little Humor, Foodies, Managers, Servers
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Like I would pass up an opportunity to post this picture
I am trying to fight through the worst bout of writer’s block I have had since I started writing this blog. I started at least three different posts yesterday that ended up in the recycle bin. In my last post I promised to get back to some server related posts, but my brain has forced me to break that promise. In the meantime I have been holding this one back for just such an occasion.
An article recently came to my attention that I am surprised none of my fellow bloggers jumped on. The Food Network recently did a survey of chefs around the country. They wrote up the results in an article titled “25 Things Chefs Never Tell You.” For the most part I think it was a balanced and informative article. There are probably a number of points that most diners are not aware of. I recommend the article for those of you who have not put in time working in a restaurant.
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September 7, 2010
David Hayden
Servers
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What I meant by "Head Trainer" was "Head Trainer of Dishwashers."
“You should never write your own resume, personal ad, or obituary. In all three cases it is better to show your humility by letting someone else lie for you.”
-David Hayden
Every since picking up a copy of Peter’s Quotations in high school it has been a personal goal of mine to quote myself in something I wrote. I can now check that one of the bucket list. Contrary to the impression I give writing this blog, I am actually a pretty humble guy. I consider humility an attribute. In most cases it serves a person well. Writing a resume is not one of those cases.
Writing a successful resume requires the writer to place the most positive spin on their achievements possible. This does not mean lying, but rather fully accentuating the positive. There is no room for humility in resume writing. It is assumed by the reader that a resume contains a fair amount of exaggeration. If you do not include that exaggeration, your humility will be mistaken for it.
I recently was asked by a friend to take a look at her resume. She had a big interview coming up and wanted to have a fresh set of eyes to take a look over it. I determined at this point there are two types of people in this world: those who edit and those who write. I write, but am not so strong on the editing side (as many of you who read regularly have gathered). I returned to her what I consider a very strong server resume. She gave me permission to share parts of it with you and I think it can provide some inspiration for anyone writing their own.
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August 27, 2010
David Hayden
Servers
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I know that order is in here somewhere
(Note: In yesterdays post I discussed why I feel it is beneficial to memorize orders. I will not recap to avoid redundancy, which itself if redundant in this post.)
I am terrible with names. Not particularly good with faces either. I will forget three things every time I take a trip. I promise I will remember to bring that CD I was telling you about next time I see you. I have left the house in my slippers. This seems like a good chance to wish a happy belated birthday to everyone who had one before the days when Facebook reminded me. There was a point to this paragraph, but I am not sure what it was.
If you ask most of my friends, they will gladly tell you how forgetful I am. If you ask my guests, they will tell you I am some sort of memorization genius. Memorizing orders is skill rather than a talent. A talent is something you are born with. A skill is something you get better at through technique and practice. I am an absent minded person who has trained himself to be highly proficient at memorizing orders.
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